October , 202

Ebb & Flow

Have you ever wondered why people don’t get along? As a “polemosopher” that’s what I do professionally albeit usually for state v state-type warfare.

But that doesn’t mean the same reasons cannot apply on an individual level. Ready? See if you find anything relevant here:

1. Different values and beliefs. Conflicting values on religion, morality, politics and lifestyle.

2. Poor communication. Your tone, misunderstandings or lack of clarity can turn small conflicts into big problems.

3. Personality clashes. Some people are naturally quiet or loud or assertive or logical, etc., and these traits can rub your friend the wrong way.

4. Competition and jealousy. Feeling threatened by someone, being compared to someone else, or feeling left out can cause tension.

And even if the person doesn’t feel this way–just knowing that that was what you were going for (assuming that you were) will be enough to tip them off to your real motives or personage.  (See “Headfakes and Swipes” next time it comes up in the DS.)

5. Unresolved past conflicts. This is a big one in large scale conflicts but it can also apply on the “p v p” level. Old disagreements that never got addressed can poison current relations.

6. Projection and assumptions. Did you think you had this person figured out only to discover that you did not? That’s making assumptions about the rest of the person. Maybe you’re right and maybe you’re not. Did you assume they were like the last person you met who was black/white/hot/ugly/fat/fit/etc? That’s projecting.

And you were so wrong, too. I’m not like that at all.

7. Stress and external pressures. People are different when they’re tired, angry, rushed, irritable and so on. Maybe it’s not a good time to hang out or bring up such n’ such. Regarding external pressures sometimes people don’t get along because there’s someone else somewhere who does not want them to. Maybe they’re “not allowed” to get along with you but actually think you’re Ok. Maybe that’s why they avoid eye contact or don’t come around anymore.

Darn.

8. Lack of trust or respect. When a person feels or, actually has been used, or, doesn’t feel like they can trust you–that can really have an effect on the relating that happens in a relationship. How you treat them matters. And so does your rap sheet.

Did you see anything relevant here in your life? Your friendships that have gone south? Chances are the reasons are somewhere on this list. If you have a heads-up maybe you’ll have time to identify it and rectify it before you lose a good one.

♠

This month the heat is on. Don’t be surprised if I say it again next month–we need your support here at Sovrumano!

Hey, I’m a one-man shop who has to wear so many hats throughout the day it’s insane all while facing constant aggravation as police sieze control of everything from My sleep patterns to bowel movements to the muscles clenching in My calves to the bluetooth on My keyboard to the fidelity of My files and virtual machine and proprietary practices and intellectual property to filing My lawsuit’s paperwork on time to My sex life to My social life to My reputation to updating this WordPress site to having customers to having freinds to having lovers to having Christians able to stop by and say hello to My meals to My clothing and personal effects in storage to finding recourse on numerous assaults and attempted murders to a return phone call from any number of past friends or current prospects–police are in it all! And they’re in it all 24 hours a day 365 days a year. I gasped a long, long time ago when i realized that someone was there listening to Me thinking when I got up to pee early one morning in Phoenix. I didn’t know they had that kind of manpower or staffing. But it’s easier when you’re deputizing civilians for the purpose of illegally surveilling other citizens (Think Brave New World) who you want to kill for their money or looks or place in society. Hell, even if you can’t do what they do you sure do look a whole hell of a lot better without them around or sickly in homelessness, now don’t ya? And this is the grand plan, don’t you see? It’s happening on such a large scale that you don’t notice it but it is not natural. I find it disconcerting. Ok, I’ll shut up. You’re help is always appreciated. If a donation doesn’t go through, scream for help and immediately file a lawsuit. You are being trapped. This is the greatest mistake in the history of the Christian Church. They are so clueless it makes Me wretch. If Christians cannot go near Christ what more evidence do you need to prove that a genocide or neo-slavery is in the making? It’s so fucking obvious I cannot believe what others cannot see. The only reason for getting this set up this way is for the purposes of a major genocide! You got a heads-up because I Am here but you are wasting the time. It’s like discovering an invisible blanket has been there all along. You should freak-out not wave it off as someone else’s problem. I Am telling you that police conspire with your neighjbor to murder you for the money but you didn’t hear a word I just said, did you? What is Ba’al worship? It’s the worship of betrayal! You betray your brother into the fetters; into the pit or into ignorance or a life unfulfilled while you run off with your new friends who are just like you are–evil. This is what is in the process of being “instittionalized” so police always have a mark to exploit. Full time. They’ll be born and raised as such for their respective zip code. And all the citizens there will have someone to “feed” off of. What have you got? that’s the question. I do My best to wake you while there are still checks and balances available because one day soon there will not be.

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